According to supervision of sociologists, unmarried careerists appear more in twice than family people. And the most terrible thing is that among unmarried businessmen, almost 70 % are women, who have the role of home keepers and mothers.
Someone asserts that it’s impossible to combine career and family: it’s impossible to do the work on a half or partly love your family. However, I consider that there is no special dilemma. A really successful person should be such in the all aspects. The way out is possible.
For example, you have the strong loving family. So, you have no fears. Discuss with the close people, what victims will be demanded from them, for example, with your new promotion. But at the same time also depict what possibilities will open with the increase of your salary.
If a career of one of the spouses became the reason of family quarrels, the first you need to do — not to create conflicts! Wisdom – the main decision in such problem. It’s not necessary to take offence, if your pair has forgotten about your family holiday. It’s because of weariness. The best decision for you – is to find some hobby and to distract.
If the one of the spouses — is a careerist, don’t disturb him or her. After all, he isn’t an alcoholic or addict. Accept the person such what he is. Yes, your couple seldom stays at home, is constantly busy, but earlier you knew, with whom your life to connect. Don’t be selfish — allow him to realize himself! It’s impossible to remake him any more. If you’re quiet person – supplement each other.
Don’t put yourself before nonexistent dilemma «career or family», solve, what exactly you want. Place your priorities. Because sometimes, appearing under the social pressure, we lose simple human happiness and we do not notice a sunny day any more, we do not see a smile of a child and we do not feel any pleasure from a career victory.
You should find golden mean: whenever possible to get up in the morning with pleasure for work, and after work with the same pleasure to go home. But life is rather difficult, and not always our dreams come true… But after all, we have aspiration for better!
Someone asserts that it’s impossible to combine career and family: it’s impossible to do the work on a half or partly love your family. However, I consider that there is no special dilemma. A really successful person should be such in the all aspects. The way out is possible.
For example, you have the strong loving family. So, you have no fears. Discuss with the close people, what victims will be demanded from them, for example, with your new promotion. But at the same time also depict what possibilities will open with the increase of your salary.
If a career of one of the spouses became the reason of family quarrels, the first you need to do — not to create conflicts! Wisdom – the main decision in such problem. It’s not necessary to take offence, if your pair has forgotten about your family holiday. It’s because of weariness. The best decision for you – is to find some hobby and to distract.
If the one of the spouses — is a careerist, don’t disturb him or her. After all, he isn’t an alcoholic or addict. Accept the person such what he is. Yes, your couple seldom stays at home, is constantly busy, but earlier you knew, with whom your life to connect. Don’t be selfish — allow him to realize himself! It’s impossible to remake him any more. If you’re quiet person – supplement each other.
Don’t put yourself before nonexistent dilemma «career or family», solve, what exactly you want. Place your priorities. Because sometimes, appearing under the social pressure, we lose simple human happiness and we do not notice a sunny day any more, we do not see a smile of a child and we do not feel any pleasure from a career victory.
You should find golden mean: whenever possible to get up in the morning with pleasure for work, and after work with the same pleasure to go home. But life is rather difficult, and not always our dreams come true… But after all, we have aspiration for better!
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